tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7644818955570396819.post7755739069929942136..comments2023-10-30T02:13:51.390-07:00Comments on Linda's Melanoma Journey: Happy Anniversary to my One and OnlyLindahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10837561298570024657noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7644818955570396819.post-10864670919821688212009-02-12T15:26:00.000-08:002009-02-12T15:26:00.000-08:00One thing I can tell you Linda is that I will neve...One thing I can tell you Linda is that I will never understand what it is like to be in your shoes. And you will never know what its like to be in Sabastian's (or my shoes) during this time...its obviously bittersweet but there is a real comfort there in knowing where you both stand with your love for one another.<BR/><BR/>One of the nicest pieces of news I got after Brian passed was that the hospice champlain called me up to see how I was "doing" and I asked to her divulge what she and Brian had talked about. <BR/><BR/>She told me that he was at peace with his melanoma diagnosis. He was at peace with dying. But the one thing he was not at peace with was knowing he was going to leave me...and that I was a "perfect wife"<BR/><BR/>It was nice to hear that even though he wasnt totally at peace with his situation, that at least he and I felt the same way...because during that time I was so busy making him confortable, vacuuming, getting cereal...that we never had that full-blown bawling session. <BR/><BR/>And I am ok with that.TEAM HOGANhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04860903758161782234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7644818955570396819.post-30238285723824835002009-02-10T14:13:00.000-08:002009-02-10T14:13:00.000-08:00Linda,Again, we share something that we treasure ....Linda,<BR/><BR/>Again, we share something that we treasure ... we both married the love of our life on the same date! Jim and I have been married for 30 years today and it seems like we were saying "I do" just yesterday. It sounds like we both got lucky (in the big scheme of life) and married two of God's gems. I wish you and Sebastian a very Happy Anniversary ... congratulations!<BR/><BR/>Love Always, <BR/>Marilyn, Jim and Ben, too!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7644818955570396819.post-49157273754994268012009-02-10T13:48:00.000-08:002009-02-10T13:48:00.000-08:00Happy Anniversary to you & Sebastian!Stephanie...Happy Anniversary to you & Sebastian!<BR/><BR/>Stephanie<BR/>Washington StateAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7644818955570396819.post-22323072283752667172009-02-10T13:33:00.000-08:002009-02-10T13:33:00.000-08:00Hapy anniversary to you and Sabastian! He is a won...Hapy anniversary to you and Sabastian! He is a wonderful husband at a generous soul. I am so glad you found each other. I love you both,MaiaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7644818955570396819.post-86783001698278233162009-02-10T12:03:00.000-08:002009-02-10T12:03:00.000-08:00I had to comment one more time on the second part ...I had to comment one more time on the second part of your entry. My husband too is a fanatic about keeping the front door locked and it makes me crazy but I do it. Our daughters have always called our home "Fort Ridgeway" (the name of the street we live on). Ironically, now that they're married and live in their own homes guess what?...they too keep their front doors locked! Guess some habits really are hard to break! ha ha<BR/>I think I would like your Sebastian. :)<BR/><BR/>KathieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7644818955570396819.post-42157125649594774542009-02-10T11:26:00.000-08:002009-02-10T11:26:00.000-08:00Happy Anniversary! All that matters is you love hi...Happy Anniversary! All that matters is you love him. Some people don't love my hubby and some of his friends don't like me either. Oh well we make each other happy so there ;) <BR/><BR/>Happy 8yrs to you both!<BR/><BR/>{{hugs}}<BR/>NancyNancy Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13105436167826506399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7644818955570396819.post-10168303779155693762009-02-10T09:08:00.000-08:002009-02-10T09:08:00.000-08:00Wow,I can't believe it's been 8 years! I really li...Wow,I can't believe it's been 8 years! I really like Sabastian.(sorry if you don't always hear that) Sometimes people put their two cents in where it isn't needed.The best kinda friends love my guy when i do, and then secretly hate him when I'm mad :)You guys are awesome.Happy Anniverary,please tell Sabastian I said so too. Love you auntie Lindachristinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05817382732418411193noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7644818955570396819.post-81677503268001967672009-02-10T08:00:00.000-08:002009-02-10T08:00:00.000-08:00Happy Anniversary!! True love is a real gift that...Happy Anniversary!! True love is a real gift that few people ever get. You and Sebastian deserve the love you've found in each other in this crazy world. Congratulations to you both on your special day!<BR/><BR/>KathieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7644818955570396819.post-50909857803701340272009-02-10T06:56:00.000-08:002009-02-10T06:56:00.000-08:00Happy Anniversary to 2 very special people!!! You...Happy Anniversary to 2 very special people!!! Your love inspires us all.<BR/>{{{HUGS}}}<BR/>PatriceAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7644818955570396819.post-30871762961247424392009-02-10T06:46:00.000-08:002009-02-10T06:46:00.000-08:00Much love and peace to the both of you on this spe...Much love and peace to the both of you on this special day. I've been thinking and praying for both of you multiple times a day.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09462350651994598326noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7644818955570396819.post-44531857239159916392009-02-10T06:41:00.000-08:002009-02-10T06:41:00.000-08:00Eight years with true love ... how wonderful. Ha...Eight years with true love ... how wonderful. Happy Anniversary to both of you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7644818955570396819.post-9506739954688380912009-02-10T06:31:00.000-08:002009-02-10T06:31:00.000-08:00Happy Anniversary to you both..HugsHappy Anniversary to you both..<BR/><BR/>HugsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com